When couples and singles first get into the swinger lifestyle, one of the first things most people wonder is what the straight vs. bisexual ration is.

My wife and I have been swingers for about two years now. In that time we have met many very fun and sexy singles and couples and we are a member of all of the most popular swinger sites. We have a very good understanding of the lifestyle in general and I can tell you very confidently that the most men in the lifestyle are straight and most women are bi.

There are of course some bisexual men and some straight women, but I would say that nine out of ten swinger men are straight, or at least claim to be, and 9 out of 10 swinger women are bisexual.

However, most do not require same-gender sex with all encounters; it’s just a possibility in most cases, so there is no need to worry about it if you’re not into that. The key to fun swinging encounters is communication!

It’s very important to communicate with the other couple, or single, before meeting. Everyone involved should always be clued in and know exactly what is expected. This is especially important when one or more person is bisexual, as misinformation regarding that topic could lead to some very uncomfortable situations!

If you are bi and that is exactly what you’re looking for, you shouldn’t have any trouble finding other bi swingers in your area. Many men in the lifestyle who are bi will claim that they are straight online until they feel comfortable with the person/people enough to admit that they are bi.

Most of them aren’t doing it to be deceitful, they are doing it so they have a better chance, as bi men are ignored by some couples and most bi men are perfectly fine with playing with couples without any bi play.