There comes a time in your relationship when your girl or spouse no longer enjoys sex. She may start rejecting your advances and may feign headaches or fatigue and avoid getting physically intimate with you. If such a thing happens do not get exasperated there are ways you can rekindle the fire in your relationship and sex will once again be as enjoyable as it used to be. First, check if there is any underlying medical condition that is causing it. May be your girl is experiencing certain hormonal imbalances and hence has lost interest in sex. Once you have ruled out all these possibilities the only plausible reason why your girl is spurning your advances is she is not enjoying sex with you anymore. Use the following tips to reignite the flame….
Change the setting-
If boredom has set in, change the setting. Use aromatic candles, play light instrumental music, use the dimmer or change your perfume. Once your partner realizes that you are taking extra efforts she will feel happy and willingly contribute to make the love making special.
Awaken the animal in her-
Instead of getting on with the act pay attention to her pleasures and engage in a prolonged foreplay. Women also feel the need to reach an orgasm but they love the journey to orgasm more than the orgasm itself. Use your tongue and hands to stroke and play with her love buttons. Kiss the neck, give her gentle love bites and a longish oral will do wonders and give her multiple orgasms.
Try different positions-
Once you have given her an orgasm try different positions that will increase her pleasure and give her another round of volcanic orgasms. The reverse missionary position is one good example. In this position she is on top and in control of the act. This position also gives her maximum clitoral and vaginal stimulation. The back position is also a good variation as you can reach around and give her vaginal stimulation while controlling the depth and speed of your thrusts.
Make sex an enjoyable event. In fact, offer to do the dishes and the laundry after a great lovemaking session. Well, as you see the more you do it the more your girl will want to do it.
Monthly Archives: September 2011
Finding Love & Romance on Sex Dating and Adult Dating Websites
There are many types of dating websites on the internet, but the most popular ones are adult dating sites where there are no restrictions on nudity, sexuality or fantasies. While such dating sites are liberating for the open-minded individuals, the question remains whether they offer a serious way of finding love and romance.
One of the big issues about a regular dating website such as match.com or eharmony.com is the fact that they censor nudity and sexually open expressions of their members. In the case of eharmony.com, the focus is on personality compatibilities. While personality and characters are important aspects of a successful relationship, what is even more important is sexual attraction and sexual compatibility.
As a relationship expert, I have worked with many of my clients whose relationships have failed because their sex life has dwindled over time. How many times have you heard people saying that the best way to end your sex life is to get married? Sex or the lack thereof is one of the main causes of relationship breakups, cheating or extramarital affairs.
Sexual compatibility is determined by many different factors. First impressions do matter a lot, but the basis of sexual attraction goes far beyond that first face to face meeting. While you may be attracted to someone because you think they are beautiful, the attraction will likely dull over time unless there is sexual compatibility. Sexual compatibility is determined by the sexual fantasies shared by two people, much like hobbies, personality or interests.
So if sexual compatibility is so important, why aren’t dating websites placing more important on this subject when matching up likely mates? The reason may be as simple as online censorship, where anything containing nudity is quickly classified into the x-rated or adult category. Fortunately, an increasing number of dating websites are placing more focus on sexuality and sensuality issues. These dating sites offer the best of both worlds, allowing their members to explore physical attraction, personality compatibilities while exploring fantasies, fetishes and sexual commonality.
Sexual Assault & Date Rape Prevention – Take Back the College Campus & Community From Sex Predators
What are you doing to stop physical aggression, date rape, and sexual assault in your community and on your nearby college campus?
Physical aggression occurs in 1 out of 3 young adult dating relationships. Date rape accounts for nearly 70% of all sexual assaults reported by adolescent and college-age women. Countless young adults are subjected to emotional abuse from their boyfriends or girlfriends, severely damaging their self-esteem and making them feel powerless. Who therefore are you empowering and preventing from being another sad statistic? Will your wife, daughter, or son be the next victim of date rape or sexual assault?
As a young man who was sexually assaulted and raped himself; I recognize the need to boldly, wisely and humorously tackle the taboo subject of date rape and sexual assault many shun and run from.
Confronting the stereotypes, subtleties, seductive tendencies, and secrets regarding sexuality leading up to date rape and sexual assault, it is necessary we give young adults a fresh and insightful look at the nuances that need to be addressed to honor, preserve, and protect our sexuality.
Moreover we must examine the psychology and sociology of power and lust that drives men to pursue sexual conquest, while differentiating between overbearing masculinity and maintaining one’s manly honor and integrity. It is paramount that we take a deep look at the pathway and precursors to male domination en route to sexual exploitation of women.
The disturbing prevalence of campus sexual assault shatters the illusion college campuses are sanctuaries of safety from the real world. Providing meaningful education and awareness to both sexes, we must not hesitate to address the male ego and sexuality, provide meaningful steps to establish proper perimeters relationally, minimize the abuse of women in courtship and socially, while simultaneously identifying crucial factors necessary to prevent being overcome by sexual predators.
It is necessary that we facilitate and opens up heartfelt discussions between the sexes by dealing with misnomers, presumptions, false interpretations, mischaracterizations, and miscommunication relationally that often misdirects our actions sexually and endangers us unnecessarily. By graciously and candidly addressing the problems and complexities related to sexual victimization scarring children, adolescents, and adults worldwide we undoubtedly can make a huge difference in the lives of many.
Discover the facts about domestic violence, acquaintance rape, and drug use by sexual predators so you can prevent and conquer any undesirable attempt for sexual conquest against your will.
For the sake of your own well being, the safety of your students on your local college campus, the public health, and general welfare of all sexes; you owe it to yourself and your community to speak powerfully to the peculiarities that precede and lead up to sexual assault and date rape. By being proactive, taking necessary precautions, and initiating a preventative approach you can save someone’s life and maintain the dignity of the sexes within your community.
Stop being victimized and start being victorious by taking back your campus and community from sexual predators.